We found out Wednesday that Aila is going to be having a little BROTHER in June ... which was WONDERFUL news ... My "adopted daughter", Chelsey, has been having the most horrible month ... she has been dating Aila's daddy for 3 years now, and time after time, he cheats on her ... she always takes him back, but a few weeks ago, she found out that while SHE works, (he has already 9 kids with 7 DIFFERENT moms) and he does NOT work, he has been bringing ladies to her home at night (she works nights at a Casino) so there are 5 ladies all together that he has been "seeing", putting her baby to bed at night and sleeping with this JERK (excuse my words) in HER bed ... so, now 5 months pregnant, she has kicked him out for the last time ... (I PRAY SHE HANGS IN THERE) And to make things that much worse, she found out that 2 of the 5 ladies are ALSO pregnant ... it's just a mess, BUT that isn't really why I am asking for prayers ... after her sonogram Wednesday ... she had to visit the Dr ... in the sono, they could not find the Spine where it connects to the tail bone ... and something about the ventricles in his brain are dilated ... SOOO not looking good for a healthy baby boy ... next week on Thursday she is going for a Level 2 sonogram and they will be able to check better to see and at that time they will schedule an amniocentesis if needed to gather more information at that time ... I DO know that many many times regular ultrasounds do or don't show things "wrong" when, in the end, everything is Fine, so we are praying for this outcome ... the Dr thinks he has "Spina Bifida" or Down's Syndrome, or may be as simple as just being developmentally delayed so this week has been stressful and will still be until we have more concrete answers next week ...
sorry if anyone thinks I gave too many details, but I need to vent ... I don't have anyone here to vent to ... thank you gals! I have never personally been in the situation she is in ... but I don't understand why she keeps taking him back ... what made things really even worse, was that the day she confronted him and kicked him out, he beat the crap out of her ... she ended up in the hospital overnight that night ... she won't press charges, I just don't know what I can do to help her or what advise to give ...