Hopefully this link will explain some stuff. Basically it's a gift swap. Everyone fills out the form with questions, and the hostess redistributes them to a different person. You only know who you're buying gifts for, but the person who has your form is secret. When you get your partner's form, you use the info they filled out and that month's theme to buy them a reborn related gift (or gifts) ranging from $15 to $25. Then everybody ships them out. It's kinda like a mini Christmas!